You value other things rather than sexual attraction Perhaps the best place to start is to consider why you picked someone with whom you experienced little or no sexual attraction. These are difficult questions to answer as human beings are complex creatures and what drives our sexual interest and attraction is not only unique but often times beyond our awareness. If so, then you know that sexual attraction doesn’t always come automatically but can take time to develop as you get to know each other better and start to value each other’s unique characteristics and personality traits.īut what if you have given the relationship time and there is still no sexual attraction? Is it possible to develop these feelings down the road? If you were never physically attracted to your partner, will you ever be? Maybe you and your partner are one of those couples. In reality, many romantic relationships start without initial sexual chemistry. This is largely due to the fact that beyond just their physical appearance you’ll come to appreciate the ‘essence’ of the person, that indefinable quality or ‘felt sense’ which is special to each individual and separates them from every other person you know. The more you get to know each other on a non-physical level, the more the physical attraction may grow on its own. When people talk about the spark or clicking with somebody, they’re not necessarily talking about a physical attraction but a mental one. Give the sexual/physical attraction time to developĪlthough Hollywood would have us believe that true love starts with people being drawn together like magnets when they first meet in typical Romeo and Juliet style, it can take time to develop this physical attraction as you get to know each other mentally and emotionally first. So, if you aren’t experiencing the level of physical attraction toward your new love interest, should this be of concern? If we find someone physically and sexually attractive, it sparks our interest to get to know him or her better. A person’s physical appearance and the way they present themselves are usually the first things we notice about them. Whilst love doesn’t always start with a strong physical and sexual attraction, it certainly helps to draw people together. The man felt confused as he was questioning whether or not he should commit to a relationship in which he felt little sexual attraction to his partner. The girlfriend made it clear that she wanted a long-term commitment from him and was pushing to get engaged. He explained that he loved her but he just wasn’t sexually attracted to her and never had been, not even in the beginning. He told me that he had been in a three year relationship with his girlfriend. I recently came across a man who is faced with an interesting dilemma.
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